This is a key question I am asked regularly by prospective clients. Choosing a family law solicitor is a significant decision. You are likely to work closely with this individual for a considerable period of time and will be required to discuss often very personal and sensitive aspects of your life.

In any financial proceedings on divorce, your solicitor will be required to undertake a careful review of your financial records, including your bank and credit card statements. In children proceedings, they may need to consider historic communications with your former partner or any social media activity. Family solicitors are accustomed to dealing with these aspects of a separation, but this level of disclosure requires a level of trust and respect (on both sides) and underscores the importance of finding a solicitor who is the right “fit” for you.

While there is no definitive tool to identify the perfect solicitor, the following considerations may assist you in making an informed choice.

1.       What do you want to achieve?

At the outset, it is important to reflect on what you hope to achieve from your case. Are you seeking to resolve matters in a constructive and amicable way, ideally outside the court process? Or do you anticipate that court proceedings will be unavoidable?

If your preference is to resolve matters more constructively, you may wish to instruct a solicitor who adopts a conciliatory and solution-focused approach, with a strong record of success outside of court (i.e. through non-court dispute resolution). In such circumstances, Resolution can be a useful starting point. Resolution is an association of family justice professionals who commit to a Code of Practice promoting a constructive approach to family disputes. They can provide details of member solicitors in your local area. Further information is available at www.resolution.org.uk, or by telephone on 020 3841 0300.

If, on the other hand, you expect that your case will require a firm hand at the tiller and a robust approach, you may wish to focus on solicitors with a strong reputation for litigation and getting outcomes in complex, high emotion cases.

These approaches are also not mutually exclusive. Many solicitors who are members of Resolution are also highly experienced litigators. Nevertheless, a solicitor’s website, professional profile, and initial conversations should give you a sense of their preferred approach.

You may also wish to consider how your former partner is likely to respond to your choice of solicitor, as this can sometimes influence the tone, progress and strategy of proceedings.

2.       Identify any specialist expertise you may need

Although most family law solicitors will have experience across a broad range of issues, it is important to identify whether your circumstances require a particular expertise or niche interest.

This may relate to specific types of assets, such as trusts, family businesses, carried interests, or royalty income. Alternatively, it may involve experience in cases concerning domestic abuse, coercive or controlling behaviour. Some firms may have specific protocols or client offerings for clients who have suffered trauma, or otherwise face additional challenges engaging with solicitors or court proceedings (for example, neurodivergent clients).

When making enquiries, do not hesitate to ask prospective solicitors about their experience in dealing with issues that are particularly relevant to your case.

3.       Prioritise clear and effective communication

Family proceedings can be emotionally charged and, at times, overwhelming. It is therefore essential to instruct a solicitor who communicates clearly, listens carefully, and ensures you feel supported throughout the process.

A good solicitor should be able to explain complex legal issues in a straightforward manner and keep you informed about the progress of your case. Communication styles vary, so itis worth reflecting on how you prefer to receive information and ensuring your solicitor’s approach aligns with your needs. Don’t be afraid to spell out what kind of approach will get the best out of you. 

4.       Location and practical considerations

Since the Covid-19 pandemic, geographical location has become less significant, as much family law work can be (and frequently is) conducted remotely. However, there can still be advantages to instructing a solicitor who is able to meet with you in person when required, particularly for key meetings or hearings.

Additionally, solicitors who regularly practise in your local courts may have greater familiarity with any local quirks, as well as the judges that sit regularly, which can be beneficial.

Conversely, you may prefer to instruct a solicitor based outside your immediate area for personal or practical reasons. This is a matter of individual preference and should be considered carefully.

5.       Costs

Fees are an important consideration. It is important to understand fees and charging structures, as this will no doubt inform the decision you make as to your chosen firm and/or solicitor.

If you wish for a partner to have day to day conduct of your case, this will generally increase your costs. In some instances, a team approach, where a partner provides strategic oversight and an associate manages day-to-day matters, can be a cost-effective option.

You should always ask for a clear explanation of fees at the outset (and as you go along), including hourly rates, anticipated costs, and billing arrangements. Some firms offer an initial free conversation or fixed fee strategy discussions for a review of your case. Transparency at an early stage can help avoid unexpected costs later.

6.       Seek recommendations and reviews

Personal recommendations can be invaluable, so always turn to your trusted network for recommendations as the first port of call. It can also be helpful to consider professional directories, such as Legal 500, Chambers & Partners, and The Times Best Law Firms, which provide independent reviews and rankings of solicitors and firms. Consider engaging a divorce coach or consultant to help guide the process of selecting your legal team. Be wary of online reviews that can be manipulated.

Do the solicitors you are looking at have the right network? Have they had experience with cases such as yours?

While every case is unique, consistently positive feedback can provide reassurance as to a solicitor’s expertise and client care.

Final thoughts

Selecting the right family law solicitor is a significant decision and should not be rushed. Take time to ask questions, consider your priorities, and trust your instincts. With the right solicitor, you can navigate what is often a difficult period with clarity and confidence and take the first steps towards achieving your objectives.